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The Art of Seduction (2001) by Robert Greene is a self-help book about manipulating people for personal gain. It’s not just about sex; it can be used to sell things, get political power, or persuade others in general to achieve one’s goals. With close psychological analysis and careful planning, seducers can tear down victims’ defenses so they’ll do what the seducer wants.
Seduction is a skill that anyone can learn. The first step to seducing someone is understanding yourself and the other person. There are nine different types of seducers, but people tend to naturally gravitate towards one type over another.
Sirens are the most overt seducers, and rakes are aggressive. Sirens have an outpouring of dramatic sexual energy that lures victims and their attention spans are short. Rakes like pursuit but can be fickle with their attentions.
There are three types of people who don’t come across as overtly sexual. Ideal lovers convey a sense of high romance, naturals enjoy the innocence of children, and charmers rely on their social skills to charm others.
Dandies are people who don’t follow the rules of society, such as wearing certain clothes or acting a certain way. They appeal to people’s repressed desires and flaunt societal norms. Coquettes are emotionally withdrawn and maintain a degree of remove from their targets. They’re inscrutable and aloof, which is often attractive because it makes them mysterious. The last two types of seducer, charismatics and stars, have widespread appeal because they’re confident (charismatic) or dreamlike (star).
Generally speaking, seduction requires focus on the victim’s psychological makeup. The best seducers get what they want by understanding other people and controlling them. They’re not self-absorbed, but rather outwardly focused. Anti-seducers are too self-absorbed in that inward focus; other people find them repellent because of it.
There are different types of people who can be victims. All victims have one thing in common: they’re missing something important in their lives. The seducer’s job is to analyze the victim and figure out what the victim needs, then give it to them. Seduction is a strategic process that involves breaking down defenses by gaining trust without giving away too much information about oneself or revealing too many personal details. It requires some flattery to gain trust and make someone feel good about themselves, but not so much as to become overly familiar with them. Ideally, the target will find you fascinating enough that they won’t want you to leave their life when you’re done using them for your own purposes.
Not everyone is good at seduction, but with careful planning and analysis, anyone can succeed.
Key Point 1: Seducers must enhance their natural charisma to make themselves as appealing to victims as possible.
Charisma exists on a spectrum, and can be improved with practice. In the past, people believed that charisma was something you were born with. However, more recent research suggests otherwise – that it can be developed over time.
Researchers have linked charisma to characteristics that are fixed and beyond a person’s control, like height. For example, in one study, tall managers were better liked by their subordinates than shorter ones. On the other hand, charisma can be linked to personal qualities that people can change on a daily basis. For example, research suggests that well-rested people are more charismatic than tired people.
Simple tweaks to body language and speaking habits can improve one’s charisma. These behaviors are controllable, even though they usually exist outside of conscious awareness. Seducers can try pausing for a few seconds before taking their turn in a conversation as an easy way to boost their charisma quotient. Another tactic is demonstrating one’s full and attentive presence over the course of a conversation instead of being distracted by, say, a cell phone. Mindfulness meditation helps seducers develop conspicuous listening skills that will make them more charismatic.
